Sunday 24 June 2012

My Favourite British Things

Food
Fish and chips - steaming hot, oily, salty chips!
Sunday roast - the gravy oooooooooh
Cream teas - no explanation needed

Culture
Children's books - Julia Donaldson, Harry Potter, Roald Dahl
The Royal Family - Royal weddings, Jubilees, the pageantry and pomp
The Science Museum

Geography
The countryside - the quietness away from the hustle and bustle of the city
Seaside towns - the ice cream, sticks of rock, arcades and rock pooling

Designers
Matthew Willamson
Jenny Packham
Cath Kidston - who doesnt'?

Sports People
David Beckham
Amir Khan
Rebecca Adlington

Actors/actresses 
Dame Judy Dench
Thandie Newton
Emily Blunt
Colin Firth - Mr Darcy!!
Clive Owen

Chefs
James Martin
Nigel Slater
Rick Stein
Rachel Allen
Delia Smith

Music
The Beatles
Adele
Dido
Ed Sheeran



My un-favourite British Things

Marmite - it's a love it or hate it thing, and I'm a 'hate it'
The weather -
The press - who do they think they are?
Tulisa
Jamie Oliver

A mixed bag....

I recently decided to start running, but after just a week, the weather went back to heavy rainfall for days on end. This annoyed me, especially after a week of warm, dry weather which is what inspired me to go running in the first place. So I decided to join the gym so that I could keep going with my fitness plan, and ironically, it hasn't rained all week so far!
I can already feel the difference it has been making and I want to keep my motivation level high enough right through to the end of the summer (although it has been rather more like Autumn lately)
I much prefer swimming to gym because it works out the body all over and there is no sweat!
I can't wait till I see the results I want!

I had heard about a Toddler World activity at a leisure centre so I took K to check it out. The facility was huge and there was an endless amount of fun things to do. There was a bouncy castle, ride on trikes, hoops, basketball and soft play. It was the best way to spend a rainy morning.





 I haven't been baking for some time and I felt the urge to make something I haven't tried before. I have my signature madeirorange cake perfected and I wanted to try something new for a change. I also had a lot of carrots and walnuts to use up so what better way to do so than incorporate them into a cake. I was so pleased with the result that I will be making this on a regular basis. It uses hardly any sugar, and I may even leave it out altogether next time.




Today, I took the children to my old school reunion. I got the invitation many weeks ago and had forgotten all about it until I was going through some paperwork and it reappeared. I have been looking forward to this, although my sister and my friends from school were not around to go with me. I live only two streets away from the school but I haven't entered the grounds since I left in 1997. I was at Northwood College from 1987-90 and then again for 6th form in 1995-97. In between, I went to secondary school in Abu Dhabi where we lived for 5 years from 1990-95.
It felt very evocative to be back there. It was also strange giving my daughter and son a tour of the school, showing them my old class rooms, library, playground, assembly hall, dining room and sports fields. There were displays of photographs, yearbooks and uniforms. There was a lovely BBQ lunch, cream tea and a live band playing which my children enjoyed. A surreal Saturday afternoon for me!






In the late afternoon, I decided to bake bread with the children. They love making bread and cakes and get such pleasure from seeing the results of their efforts. We measured out the ingredients together, made the dough and kneaded it by hand, but knowing that the children's patience is very short, I should have used the mixer. They loved rolling it into long thin shapes and twisting them. I gave them a bath while waiting for the dough to rise and after baking, they resembled breadsticks which they ate warm with hummous and olives for their dinner.









Sunday 17 June 2012

Den building day

This weekend I have the children all to myself, and it has started becoming quite unusual for this to happen because there are always friends to see, birthday parties and playdates to go to and so on. So when a friend of mine had to change her plans, it felt quite nice that it was going to me just me and my children.
We had a plan arranged for the morning, to go to an Outdoor Explorers session, organised by the local children's centre and today's activity was den building. Although it was very, very windy, the organisers took us into a well sheltered spot in the woods and the group got started. I have to say it was so much fun! The children were so excited about the whole thing, and I must admit I really enjoyed it too! All the materials were provided such as tarpaulin, camouflage nets, blankets, fabrics, pegs, string, cable ties, torches, and of course the branches from the wood itself.

Here's what our finished den looked like


We didn't want to take it apart and the children even wanted to sleep in it. We got home just before it started to rain and they were inspired to make a den at home and here it is




They spent hours hours playing and sitting in their den, reading books and playing ''house''. I took them a 'picnic' lunch and snacks to eat in it. They loved this so much that they even asked if they could sleep in it at night, and seeing as it was bringing them so much joy, I let them!

While they spent the afternoon in the den, I had time to myself to read magazines, drink tea, paint my nails and eat from the first delivery of my new Graze box!!




Thursday 14 June 2012

Half term at Haven

I decided to take the family on our very first UK holiday. I knew the weather was going to be unpredictable, but I was not going to let that stop me. It's half term, it's the Queen's Diamond Jubilee, we have our new car, so a bit of rain is not going to dampen my spirits! 

It was the right time to start, with the children being almost 5 and 3, it is our first road trip, our first holiday with no with no buggy, with both children being toilet trained, sleep trained and with any luck, R will have some memories of it. 
To make R's wish come true, I booked a caravan holiday on the South West Coast of England, in Weymouth, Dorset. 
There is so much to see and do in Dorset that the 4 nights were simply not enough. 
Despite the weather being cold, wet and windy we managed to fit in a whole load of activities including swimming, kite flying, mini golf, biking, sand building, arcades, beach exploring, seaside attractions, arts and crafts, live music, singing and dancing. 
There were so many local attractions to visit and so many historical sights to see including the Jurassic coast, 1000 year old castles and stately homes. 
We spent our nights in our caravan, played lots of family board games and making good conversation. 
The only television we watched was the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee celebrations. 
The only thing we missed was being able to eat fresh fruits and vegetables because it just wasn’t on offer at the places we went to eat. By the end of the 4th day, R was actually craving it, asking for peas, peas and more peas. 










Sandworld



Portland Bill
Weymouth Beach and Harbour



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Rambling in the Rain

While I was looking through iTunes for running tracks, I came across albums that have been compiled specifically for running or workout purposes! I love the idea of this because I was just about to compile my own album to run to.
For once, the weather was warm and sunny and so after school I took the children to Ruilsip Lido with a bag of stale bread to feed the ducks. The children love doing this only today there were far more swans and geese than there were ducks. The swans started running towards us as soon as they saw me rustling a plastic carrier bag and the size of some of these swans dwarfed poor little K who was terrified. R found the whole greedy swan thing quite funny and was determined to stay until she had finished feeding the swans all the bread.
It really is annoying just how much the weather affects my mood. I do wish that it didn't make any difference to me, just like the children, but it really does make me feel down when it's miserable out there. I think I should do something about this because I don't want to pass on my mood and moaning to my children! We had an amusing conversation about the rain the other day. R asked me who make it rain and why. I gave her the answer that all life needs water to live and grow, such as trees, plants, animals and people. She thought about this for a moment and then said, ''But mummy, we get water from the tap, we don't need rain. So why does it have to rain?' I then gave her the explanation of how the water from our taps gets there. And more questions followed. They went on and on and on. I really enjoyed being asked these kinds of questions as they reveal quite a lot about her thought processes. I love answering them too and seeing the look on her face as she takes on board the information I give her. One of her questions was "What if it rains so much that the rivers flood and the people and houses and trees sink?" I had to think about that one, the challenge is that the answer I give needs to be age appropriate, easy for her to understand and the foundation upon which she will build on.
This conversation reminded me of the incredible amount of power we have over our children, in that we can make them believe anything we want, and it also made me feel sad that there are many parents who exploit and abuse this power for financial gain. This is the case in many third world countries (child labour), but even in the world's most developed countries beauty pageant competitions exist for under 5's. If you haven't seen Toddlers and Tiaras, don't watch it unless you want to witness an ethically and morally wrong activity. I would even challenge the fact that it is a competition.
The capacity and potential to learn that children have is astounding.  Each and every day, there is something new that my children say or do that makes me swell with joy. Even more astounding is the capacity of my love for them, it just keeps expanding and growing, and in the words of one of their favourite characters, to infinity and beyond!